Settling In: What to Expect During Your First Days in Residence
Arib Hassam, Residence Don
It is with great excitement and heartfelt warmth that I welcome you to St. Michael’s College Residence! My name is Arib, I am the Don of More House, and it is my privilege to greet you at the threshold of this new adventure. Whether you’re stepping into the world of university for the first time or continuing your academic journey, know that SMC residence will be your home away from home—a place filled with opportunities, challenges, and countless memorable moments.
The residences at SMC are a vibrant and tight-knit community where everyone plays a part in creating a supportive and inclusive environment. The essence of St. Mike’s is found in the friendships you’ll make, the late-night study sessions, and the laughter shared over meals in the Canada Room. Our community is a mosaic of diverse backgrounds, interests, and perspectives, all contributing to a rich tapestry of campus life. We are a family, bound by our shared experiences and the unique traditions that make SMC truly special.
As you settle into your new surroundings, I encourage you to embrace the full spectrum of the university experience. There will undoubtedly be moments of sheer joy and exhilaration – those are the highs that make life exhilarating. Cherish these moments, celebrate your successes, and share your achievements with those around you. However, it’s equally important to remember that your experience at UofT, especially during your first year, can have its share of challenges. Whether it’s academic pressures, homesickness, or just the adjustment to a new environment, these lows are a natural part of the journey. In those moments, lean on the support systems around you: your peers, the residence don team (including myself), and the many resources available at SMC and UofT. Stay strong and resilient, knowing that each challenge you face is a stepping stone towards personal growth and maturity.
One of the most valuable pieces of advice I can offer is to master the art of time management. Balancing academics, social activities, and personal responsibilities can be daunting, but it’s crucial for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling life. Don’t underestimate the impact of keeping up with everyday chores like doing your laundry, tidying up your room, and taking out the trash. These seemingly mundane tasks can significantly enhance your mental well-being and state of mind, creating a sense of order and calm in your living space. To make this easier, consider setting aside time each week (perhaps Sunday evenings) as your dedicated housekeeping time. Having this routine not only keeps your space clean but also provides a structured break from academic work, allowing you to reset and prepare for the week ahead.
Remember, SMC residence is a place where you can grow, learn, and discover more about yourself. It’s absolutely okay to ask for help and to seek out resources when you need them! We have a wonderful team of residence life staff, academic advisors at the SMC registrar, and mental health professionals ready to support you in any way they can. Whether you need advice on managing coursework, navigating social dynamics, or just need someone to talk to, we’re here for you. Don’t hesitate to reach out to your Don, whether it’s through a casual conversation or a more formal appointment. Your well-being and success are our top priorities.
As you embark on this exciting journey, take the time to explore all that SMC and UofT have to offer. Get involved in clubs and activities, attend events, and make the most of the vibrant campus life. These experiences will enrich your time here and help you build lasting memories and friendships.
In closing, I want to once again welcome you to St. Mike’s. We are so thrilled to have you join us and look forward to supporting you every step of the way. Here’s to a fantastic year filled with learning, growth, and unforgettable experiences. Welcome home!
